How to Get Married in Delaware From Start to Finish

Delaware may be teeny tiny, but the Small Wonder state packs a major punch when it comes to idyllic wedding venues, top-tier vendors, and memory-making ops for your big day. If you're planning to tie the knot here, step No. 1 is learning how to get married in Delaware.

From dreamy coastal ceremonies to splendid historic estates brimming with charm, Delaware is ready to wow you and your guests. We're breaking down everything you need to know, from the best places to say "I do" to state-specific tips that will make planning a breeze to requirements for a wedding license in Delaware. By the end of this guide, you'll be ready to create the wedding of your dreams in this East Coast gem.

In this article:

• How to Get a Delaware Marriage License
• Notable Wedding Locations in Delaware
• How to Plan a Wedding in Delaware Step-by-Step

How to Get a Delaware Marriage License

Figuring out all the Delaware marriage laws isn't exactly the most magical part of your nuptials, but it's easily one of the most important steps! Fortunately, getting a marriage license in the state is a cinch.

You and your future spouse must show up together at your county clerk's office—specifically the county clerk of the peace. Bring the application form and valid identification for each of you (like a driver's license, passport, military ID card or state-issued ID). Additionally, if you or your future spouse were in a previous marriage, Delaware marriage requirements may include bringing an original or certified copy of the divorce decree, legal annulment, dissolution or death certificate.

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The marriage license fee in Delaware is $70 if at least one of the applicants is a state resident; if you're a non-resident, the marriage license fee is $120. (Make sure to also bring proof of address if you're a Delaware resident.) Generally speaking, it takes about 20 minutes to complete your marriage license application process and after that, there is a 24-hour waiting period for the application to be fully processed.

Notable Wedding Locations in Delaware

Don't be fooled by its small size. One of the greatest aspects of getting married in Delaware is that you've got your pick of a variety of gorgeous Delaware wedding venues. Whether you're a farm lover at heart, feel like you belong in more of a city environment or have your heart set on a beautiful beach wedding, this state has something for everyone.

"There are so many beautiful places in Delaware—from the beaches to hidden garden gems in the cities—lookin' at you, Marian Coffin Garden," says Brooke Weidenfeld, an event and wedding planner and the founder of Sunbursts and Stardust. "Even if your venue is more indoor-focused, be sure to utilize the natural elements in the area and head to one of these places for photos."

Wilmington

As Delaware's largest city, Wilmington is one of the best hubs for elegant and modern weddings. Consider tying the knot in a historic estate (like the Hagley Museum or Nemours Estate) or keeping things contemporary in one of the city's many downtown venues. Also note that Brandywine Valley offers lovely outdoor backdrops for ceremonies and photos, making it a favorite for couples.

Rehoboth Beach

Rehoboth Beach is easily one of Delaware's most popular beach destinations, making it a popular choice for soon-to-be-newlyweds. This waterfront location is perfect for couples who want to exchange vows on the sand, host a reception at a seaside resort or even rent a private beach house for an intimate celebration. The charming boardwalk and vibrant local dining scene add fun and flavor.

Dover

Dover is Delaware's state capital, but don't expect large-city vibes here. It's much more rustic, lending that small-town charm via historical and rustic wedding venues. From time-honored inns to quaint barns to scenic parks, Dover is perfect for couples planning an understated and intimate celebration. As a bonus, its central location also makes it convenient for guests traveling from nearby states.

Lewes

If you're after a combo of historic charm and quaint coastal vibes, the town of Lewes—founded in 1631—definitely delivers. Here, couples can host ceremonies at scenic waterfront venues, historic churches or cozy inns. For a fun nautical twist, incorporate Lewes' maritime heritage with a seafaring theme or weave in beachside touches for a memorable event.

Bethany Beach

Those hoping for a super intimate, quiet coastal wedding should have Bethany Beach on their radar. With its pristine shoreline and cozy community feel, it's perfect for couples dreaming of a serene beach wedding. Check out local rental properties and small venues, many of which provide personalized options for hosting your celebration.

How to Plan a Wedding in Delaware Step-by-Step

Planning a wedding in Delaware isn't too different from getting married elsewhere, but there are still a few things to keep in mind as you finalize all the details.

1. Set Your Budget

The average cost of a wedding in Delaware varies based on a few key factors, including the size of your wedding, the venue, vendors and services chosen. Use The Knot Budget Advisor to get a better feel for costs; it uses real data from couples who've recently gotten married in the area. Once you have your budget, you can nail down your venue and start booking vendors.

2. Choose Your Date and Venue

Determine when you'd like to tie the knot and then zero in on your preferred venues before officially locking in a date. The best time of year to get married in Delaware is arguably late spring (May and June) or early fall (September and October), when the weather is mild and outdoor venues shine. Summer dates may be better for coastal dates, but factor in humidity and heat.

3. Expand Your Vendor Search to Nearby States

Hosting a wedding in Delaware gives you an immensely large pool of vendors to choose from. "Since the state is so small, you can hire vendors from all different wedding markets—Delaware proper, Philadelphia, Maryland, New Jersey, New York—the possibilities are endless," Weidenfeld says. "Having a Delaware wedding ensures that you aren't boxing yourself in when it comes to vendor availability." Check out The Knot Vendor Marketplace to see all the options available to you.

4. Embrace the State's Historic Charm

Delaware has a longstanding history in the United States; it was the first to ratify the US Constitution way back in 1787. Use that historic charm to your advantage. "Delaware is full of stunning historic buildings that make for beautiful wedding backdrops," notes Amber Dawn Permsap, a local wedding photographer serving the Eastern region. "Whether you're tying the knot in a grand venue or an intimate outdoor setting, these timeless spaces add so much character to your photos."

5. Choose a Florist That Specializes in Local Blooms

The area in and around Delaware is filled with passionate flower farmers. "By choosing a florist who focuses on supporting local farms, you're not only creating a more sustainable event and supporting small businesses in the community, but you'll also have stunning, unique arrangements that work in harmony with your venue's natural landscaping," says Katie Trauffer, an east coast wedding photographer.

6. Weave in Modern Touches

While Delaware's historic architecture is breathtaking, adding modern colors and elements can really elevate the overall look. "Pops of bold color, contemporary decor or a sleek wedding dress can create the perfect contrast and give your wedding a unique, fresh feel without losing its timeless appeal," Permsap says.

7. Make a Great Weekend Out of It

Delaware is perfectly situated between Philadelphia and Washington, DC, so consider turning your wedding day into a wedding weekend with outings and activities for your guests. "Build core memories with your friends and family and take a break from last-minute preparations with a group trip to the Smithsonian, an ice cream social at Franklin Fountain or a trip to gorgeous Longwood Gardens," Trauffer suggests.