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Updated Oct 14, 2024Wondering How to Get Married in Missouri? Read This First
Everything you need to know about planning a wedding in Missouri.
True to its name, the Show Me State has much to showcase when it comes to planning a wedding. If your heart is set on tying the knot here, you'll want to cross all your t's by discovering the ins and outs of how to get married in Missouri. That's where we come in. From breaking down the details on legally securing a Missouri marriage license to local tips on when and where to get hitched—and how to give your nuptials that special Missouri flair—we're covering everything you need to know to create an unforgettable celebration. Let's get the party rolling.
In this article:
- How to Obtain a Marriage License in Missouri
- Notable Wedding Locations in Missouri
- How to Plan a Wedding in Missouri Step-by-Step
How to Obtain a Marriage License in Missouri
One of the first steps to getting married in Missouri is obtaining a wedding license, and this process is very straightforward. If you're wondering, "What do I need to marry someone in Missouri?" we're covering all the details in this section.
Both parties must appear in person at the county's recorder of deeds offices to apply for a Missouri marriage license. Each person should provide proof of age with a valid driver's license or other valid government-issued photo ID. They'll also need to supply their social security number in order to apply for the license.
For applicants who were previously married and have since divorced, Missouri marriage laws require you to add the date of their divorce decree to their marriage license application. Divorces must be finalized at least 30 days prior to applying for a new marriage license. If an applicant's last marriage ended due to the death of a spouse, you'll need to include that date on the application.
There is no waiting period for getting married in Missouri. Couples can obtain their marriage license the same day they apply for it. The officiant must have the license prior to the marriage ceremony, and he or she must sign and return the marriage license to the recorder of deeds office within 15 days of the ceremony. The license will become void 30 days after the date of issuance.
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Notable Wedding Locations in Missouri
From bustling cosmopolitan centers like St. Louis and Kansas City to quaint rural destinations like the state's wine regions or striking Ozark mountains, you've got your choice of Missouri wedding venues.
Kansas City
Celebrated for its buzzy art scene and finger-licking barbecue, Kansas City's blend of urban sophistication and Midwestern charm makes it a great place to get married in Missouri. Have your pick from industrial-chic lofts, wow-worthy ballrooms and stunning outdoor venues in and around the city center. For a personal touch, include local jazz music in your reception to honor the city's musical legacy.
St. Louis
You know St. Louis for its world-famous Gateway Arch that glitters in the sun, and that's just the beginning of its charm. This dynamic city offers everything from historic mansions to modern rooftops and everything in between. Infuse some local flair by serving toasted ravioli and gooey butter cake as part of your wedding menu.
Branson
Tucked into the Ozarks, Branson is a picture-perfect destination for couples seeking a scenic, nature-inspired wedding. With its beautiful lakes, rolling hills and charming chapels, the small city provides a cozy and sophisticated atmosphere. A sunset ceremony overlooking Table Rock Lake adds a breathtaking and personal touch, and the locale promises tons of options in terms of live entertainment and sightseeing for your guests.
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Lake of the Ozarks
Dreaming of a waterfront wedding in Missouri? The Lake of the Ozarks should be high on your list. From serene outdoor locales to luxury lakeside resorts, this location is a beacon for nature lovers. For some extra pizzazz, consider having fireworks shoot over the water at the end of the night or incorporate a boat into the wedding day experience.
Hermann
For wine country venues in Missouri, look no further than Hermann. Offering stunning vineyard views and idyllic backdrops, the romance meter soars to level 11 here. This small town is perfect for intimate celebrations with a European flair, and for those who love the idea of incorporating vineyards or local wine into their nuptials.
How to Plan a Wedding in Missouri Step-by-Step
Looking for some wedding ideas in Missouri that'll make your big day unforgettable? Follow these local pro tips on how to plan a wedding in the Show Me State.
1. Figure Out Your Budget
The first step for any wedding is to get a clear picture of your budget. Fortunately, Missouri is considered a more affordable state to have a wedding, but costs do vary depending on the size, venue, vendors and time of year. Check out The Knot Budget Advisor for a good idea of what Missouri state marriages cost. The database uses current information from real couples who've recently tied the knot in Missouri.
2. Pick Your Date and Venue
Missouri boasts all four seasons, including sweltering summers and chilly winters. The most popular wedding season in Missouri is either in the autumn or spring when the weather is milder and a bit more predictable. Still, there's always a chance of rain.
"When picking a venue make sure you love the inside just as much as the outside photo opportunities," advises Brooklyn Harmon, a Kansas City-based photographer. "A lot of times when it rains all photos will have to be inside and you don't want this to be a downside for you."
She also recommends picking up some clear umbrellas—just in case—which will look chic in the rain, and some veil weights since the Midwest is known for getting a bit windy.
3. Enlist Your Favorite Vendors
The rule of thumb is to hire your vendors within a year of your big day. This gives you plenty of time to research and hire your top choices. We know that narrowing down all your wedding vendors can be a bit overwhelming, but The Knot Vendor Marketplace makes the search easier via compiled lists of Missouri's best wedding vendors and real reviews.
4. Highlight Local Entertainment
Consider hiring a local jazz or blues band to reflect Missouri's rich musical history, especially if you're in cities like St. Louis or Kansas City. For a fun touch, you could also incorporate live entertainment like a storyteller or local dance troupe to captivate your guests.
5. Infuse Some Local Touches
Infuse some local flavor (literally) and cultural customs into your ceremony. "Missouri is known for its barbecue, craft beer and many wineries, as well as historical buildings/landmarks, and a rich history of jazz, blues and country music," says Dawn Calton, a Missouri wedding photographer. "Consider these things when choosing your venue, caterer and reception activities."
